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Nemo_bis 🌈<p>Avoid defining reality<br><a href="https://infighting.org/tools-and-practices/avoid-defining-reality" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">infighting.org/tools-and-pract</span><span class="invisible">ices/avoid-defining-reality</span></a></p><p>This is a common pitfall in dysfunctional relationships and volunteer groups with low relational competencies.</p><p>«We define someone’s reality when we communicate to them that we know what they think or feel better than they do. When we define someone’s reality, we believe and act as though we’re mind readers, as though we’re the expert on their experience.»</p><p><a href="https://mamot.fr/tags/NVC" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NVC</span></a> <a href="https://mamot.fr/tags/NonViolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonViolentCommunication</span></a></p>
Solar Pierre<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@radkolumne" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>radkolumne</span></a></span> ich finde reden jetzt nicht grundsätzlich schlecht.<br>es kommt auf das wie an.<br>welche andere Methode kann so Verstehen bewirken wie der Austausch von Worten?</p><p>Können wir bitte auch wenn es schwer fällt, auch bei Menschen, die rasen, andere hassen oder verletzen/töten, nicht vergessen, dass es Menschen sind? Man vergisst das leicht, wenn man Label verwendet.<br><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/nonviolentcommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>nonviolentcommunication</span></a></p><p>Nonviolent Communication - Marshall Rosenberg's NVC Training</p><p><a href="https://antennapod.org/deeplink/subscribe/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Fs%2F1373b44c%2Fpodcast%2Frss&amp;title=Nonviolent+Communication+-+Marshall+Rosenberg%27s+NVC+Training" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">antennapod.org/deeplink/subscr</span><span class="invisible">ibe/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Fs%2F1373b44c%2Fpodcast%2Frss&amp;title=Nonviolent+Communication+-+Marshall+Rosenberg%27s+NVC+Training</span></a></p>
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joui<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.ar.al/@aral" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>aral</span></a></span> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/CommonSense" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CommonSense</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/VoiceOfReason" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>VoiceOfReason</span></a> have been voided of meaning in a similar manner, being all time favourites in the conflict management phrasebook to silence dissent top down: "Y'all *just* have to calm down!" Also #1 abuse of <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/NonViolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonViolentCommunication</span></a>: "Why? I am communicating non violent, he's the asshole!"</p>
Nemo_bis 🌈<p>Did anyone write about the <a href="https://mamot.fr/tags/ReplyGuy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ReplyGuy</span></a> problem in a <a href="https://mamot.fr/tags/NonViolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonViolentCommunication</span></a> framing? Surprising if not.</p><p><a href="https://mamot.fr/tags/ReplyGuys" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ReplyGuys</span></a> <a href="https://mamot.fr/tags/NVC" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NVC</span></a></p>
Fresh as Cobble<p>"NVC, however, fosters a level of moral development based on autonomy and interdependence, whereby we acknowledge responsibility for our own actions and are aware that our own well-being and that of others are one and the same."</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NonviolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonviolentCommunication</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NVC" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NVC</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Palestine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Palestine</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Ukraine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Ukraine</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/GenocideJoe" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>GenocideJoe</span></a></p>
Chłop Marcin :fediverse:<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://101010.pl/@AubreyDeLosDestinos" class="u-url mention">@<span>AubreyDeLosDestinos</span></a></span> Tak, to jest świetne! Podaję link do wersji z polskimi napisami: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5pVaQi21gQ" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">youtube.com/watch?v=H5pVaQi21gQ</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://101010.pl/tags/NVC" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>NVC</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/NonViolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>NonViolentCommunication</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/PorozumienieBezPrzemocy" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>PorozumienieBezPrzemocy</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/MarshallRosenberg" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MarshallRosenberg</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/Rosenberg" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Rosenberg</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/wyk%C5%82ad" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>wykład</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/wyk%C5%82ady" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>wykłady</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/przemoc" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>przemoc</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/komunikacja" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>komunikacja</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/komunikacjaBezPrzemocy" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>komunikacjaBezPrzemocy</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/bezPrzemocy" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>bezPrzemocy</span></a></p>
Aubrey De Los Destinos<p>O, ale tym się podzielę. Warsztaty Marshalla Rosenberga nt. non-violent communication.</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7TONauJGfc" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">youtube.com/watch?v=l7TONauJGfc</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://101010.pl/tags/NonViolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>NonViolentCommunication</span></a> <a href="https://101010.pl/tags/MarshallRosenberg" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MarshallRosenberg</span></a></p>
Melvin<p>Oh hello!</p><p>My name is Melvin (they/them), <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a>, &amp; I'm happy to be in a space populated by other neurodivergent folks 😺 .</p><p>I've had a muuuch higher success rate in harmonious relationships with other ND folks (&amp; queer folks, which is the uniting factor of the other server I'm on). </p><p>I doubted the validity of my "membership" to both these groups for a long time (imposter syndrome, anyone?), but having that self-knowledge in the last few years has really helped me get my life set up in a somewhat manageable way -- e.g. finding covid-cautious, very quiet &amp; non-judgmental folks to live with (they're both queer and <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a>! It's *not* perfect but it's SAFE) and making a new irl friendship back in February with yet another queer, AuDHD person, which has been so great; we met on OkCupid where I occasionally have a profile for the sole purpose of finding new friends (I hate dating and consider myself <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/GrayAce" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>GrayAce</span></a>, but I DO really wanna find meaningful friendships that might still be around 10 years from now 🤞) since it offers a heavy filtration system and the opportunity to discuss covid precautions BEFORE being physically near one another. </p><p>Some of my, hmm, most influential?... special interests in my life, whether active now or just formative, include: <br>- <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/SelfGrowth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfGrowth</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Psychology</span></a> (majored in it back in college 2.0) <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/MentalHeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHeath</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Meditation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Meditation</span></a><br>- <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Words" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Words</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Language" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Language</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Etymology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Etymology</span></a><br>- <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Communication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Communication</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/NonviolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonviolentCommunication</span></a><br>- making <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Art" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Art</span></a>, playing <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Guitar" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Guitar</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Uke" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Uke</span></a> &amp; <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Singing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Singing</span></a>, or writing poetry for stimming &amp; emotional processing<br>- <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/MindBody" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MindBody</span></a> connection / growing to feel my body &amp; emotions / <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Fitness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Fitness</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Movement" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Movement</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/FunctionalMovement" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>FunctionalMovement</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/BodyMastery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>BodyMastery</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/AshtangaYoga" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AshtangaYoga</span></a> achieving an unsupported <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Handstand" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Handstand</span></a><br>- <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Science</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Logic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Logic</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/HistoryOfScience" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>HistoryOfScience</span></a><br>- <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Philosophy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Philosophy</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Ethics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Ethics</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Ontology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Ontology</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Stoicism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Stoicism</span></a> / living life by a <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/MoralCode" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MoralCode</span></a><br>- <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Systems" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Systems</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Data" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Data</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Patterns" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Patterns</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/ComputerScience" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ComputerScience</span></a> (current major, 1 semester left for associate's then on to online university for that BS!) <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/ProblemSolving" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ProblemSolving</span></a> <a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/Engineering" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Engineering</span></a> </p><p>A new 1 I hope lasts:<br><a href="https://neurodifferent.me/tags/QuadSkating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>QuadSkating</span></a></p>
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Aaron Williamson 🍄<p>When someone is upset and telling me about a problem they have, my conditioning is to hear an implicit request to fix it. If I don’t catch myself, I’ll get anxious that I can’t and respond unhelpfully. Usually, of course, they just want someone to hear them out. </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NonviolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonviolentCommunication</span></a> is an excellent practice for this. Sometimes I feel like an android saying something like, “it sounds like you are feeling upset that [thing you just said],” but no one ever seems to take it that way.</p>
Tomas Ekeli<p>RT @MBR_Quotes@twitter.com</p><p>Never do anything that isn't play.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NVC" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NVC</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NonviolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonviolentCommunication</span></a></p><p>🐦🔗: <a href="https://twitter.com/MBR_Quotes/status/1461415521425911810" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">twitter.com/MBR_Quotes/status/</span><span class="invisible">1461415521425911810</span></a></p>
CarK :python:<p><span class="h-card"><a href="https://chaos.social/@pinkprius" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>pinkprius</span></a></span></p><p>The meme is funny because its so true. And it points out a) the lack of communication skills of most humans 😢 and b) on which dismayingly primitive level our species tends to discuss factual matters 😱.</p><p>An Improvement for a) could be the essence of <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/NonviolentCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonviolentCommunication</span></a>: Respect and I-messages.</p><p>For b) some tooling 🛠️ could help to collect arguments and keep the overview💡 . Examples:</p><p>- <a href="https://arguman.org" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">arguman.org</span><span class="invisible"></span></a><br>- <a href="https://ogpde.yrpri.org" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">ogpde.yrpri.org</span><span class="invisible"></span></a><br>- <a href="https://sober-arguments.net" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">sober-arguments.net</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> (my own project)</p>
kittenlikeasmallcat<p>Here's a youtube link for this "Quick&amp; Dirty NVC rundown": <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IRmW1Tp-GQ" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?v=4IRmW1Tp-G</span><span class="invisible">Q</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/communication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>communication</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/activism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>activism</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/nonviolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>nonviolence</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/antifa" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>antifa</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/anticapitalism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>anticapitalism</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/selfcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>selfcare</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/lecture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>lecture</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/education" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>education</span></a> <a href="https://anticapitalist.party/tags/nonviolentcommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>nonviolentcommunication</span></a></p>
Puppy Pi<p><span class="h-card"><a href="https://elekk.xyz/@noelle" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>noelle</span></a></span> I recently stayed in an intentional community where everyone was (mostly) like this all the time :'3<br>(At least considered it something to strive for :3 )</p><p>They called it <a href="https://mathstodon.xyz/tags/nonviolentcommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonViolentCommunication</span></a> :D</p><p>Social media scares me because it's so often so mean ;w;<br>(And I also end up being mean a lot too D: )<br>(That's one reason why I left twitter and facebook and tumblr and stuff)</p><p>So I'm SUPER interested in finding people who try to be like, pacifists with their words too :'3</p>