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#transJoy

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TheZeldaZone🏳️‍⚧️🎮🎀<p>My new debit card is here! My deadname is 100% out of my wallet!</p><p>MOST of my mail is now sent to Me as well too.</p><p>So much work to get here but feels so much better.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/transjoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transjoy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/lgbt" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>lgbt</span></a></p>
Jessica, the lavender menace<p>Four years ago today, on the beautiful Northern California coastline near Mendocino I carried a picnic dinner bundle towards a secluded spot overlooking the Pacific Ocean, followed by my long time partner, C, and our dog, Jade. Little did either realize I was carrying something else besides our meal ... something hidden deep inside that I had only just revealed to myself.</p><p>It was here, looking over the view immortalized in the photo below, that I came out, hesitantly and with a lingering cloud of uncertainty that I "might be" a transgender woman. </p><p>I recall little of what I said that day, I'm sure little of it made sense no matter how much I had agonized over it the preceding couple of weeks since realizing that truth myself. But I will always remember C's reaction ... taking in the news, allowing me to speak and then smiling, hugging me closely and assuring me that *we* would tackle this together.</p><p>In the 1461 days since there have been a collection of ups and downs but the trajectory of my transition and my life has remained positive. C (and Jade) remain by my side and have been foundational allies and support in my transition. And as I've come out to others and met so many incredible friends in the community, I am graced by such support and love from so many. Thank you all.</p><p>Four years ago I did one of the hardest things I could image, to speak words that could have destroyed my life and relationships, all for the possibility that I might have a life that more fit who I was and had always been. I took those steps, said those words, and have been rewarded in ways I could never have imagined. </p><p><a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
Kaylee ♡<p>It went perfect, she even left me a bracelet 🥺</p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/transJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transJoy</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/transfem" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transfem</span></a></p>
Kaylee ♡<p>Fedi I’m going on a dateeeeeee</p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/transJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transJoy</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/transfem" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transfem</span></a></p>
🌈✨ vanta rainbow black ✨🌈<p>:pinkcat_cry_joy: </p><p><a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transgender</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
Davie Dean<p>Gender is weird. I sometimes find myself choosing my gender for the day based on what clothes would be fun. But it is <a href="https://aus.social/tags/gender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>gender</span></a> for me - how I want the world to perceive and treat me - it's not just what I'm wearing, even though it started with what I decided to wear today.</p><p>(This is my gender. Yours may be different)</p><p><a href="https://aus.social/tags/bigender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>bigender</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/transjoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transjoy</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/nonbinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>nonbinary</span></a></p><p>Also, if you write gender too many times, it looks like it's spelt wrong.</p>
🌈✨ vanta rainbow black ✨🌈<p>yay yay yay yay yay</p><p><a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/vantaselfie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>vantaselfie</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
KawaiiPunk<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oZnwLamCia4" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?v=oZnwLamCia</span><span class="invisible">4</span></a></p><p>Jackie Shane - Any Other Way</p><p><a href="https://sunbeam.city/tags/transjoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transjoy</span></a></p>
fibre 🐿<p>thanks to all the cycling and the rehab training my legs look (and feel) hella muscular and strong right now 🥰<br><a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/TransGEM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransGEM</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/transjoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transjoy</span></a></p>
🌈✨ vanta rainbow black ✨🌈<p>added even more patches to my hat!!!!! :3</p><p><a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/vantaDIY" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>vantaDIY</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/punk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>punk</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
mia<p>Very appropriately, the captain of my flight is a woman ☺️ <a href="https://c.im/tags/Trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Trans</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
mia<p>Holy shit, this is really happening, isn’t it? I have checked in and passed security and have about an hour to wait until take off. This morning I woke and had, finally!, that sense of joy and excitement. As I was going around the house doing my final preparations, I had a spring in my step. Even the lack of hormones could not stop the joy pouring through.</p><p>Tomorrow at this time I’ll be lying on an operation table and some people I have never met before are going to be reshaping my body, cutting and slicing and putting things back together in the way they should have always been. It never ceases to amaze me the wonders we can do. Science and medicine are wonderful. </p><p> <a href="https://c.im/tags/Trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Trans</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
mia<p>On 26 June 2023, as I went deeper in the rabbit hole that was triggered by Lisa Melton's transition, I started researching what gender affirming surgeries were. I knew the term but I had no idea what they entailed. A few minutes later, I discovered vaginoplasties and my world changed forever. I realised, in that moment, that I was a trans woman and the only thing holding me back was the belief that I could never look the way I really wanted to, that the only way for that to happen would have been to have been born a cis woman. My egg cracked when I understood that that was not the case.</p><p>I can barely believe it, but I just finished packing for my gender affirming surgery. It's been a long administrative process, that forced me to postpone the surgery once, but now there is no stopping it. Tomorrow at lunch time, I'll board a flight to Barcelona, and by this time on Wednesday, my body will finally, completely, be aligned with my mind's vision for it.</p><p>On one hand, it's feels like it took forever to get here, and the forced postponement only made it worse. But on the other hand, I have to admit that I am almost speedtransitioning. It's been less than 2 years since I cracked my egg. It's been a little over a year since I came out to the world and went female presenting on a permanent basis. It's mind blowing how much has changed in such a short period of time.</p><p>I wish I could feel things a bit more, but sadly because the surgeon requested me to stop HRT 2 weeks before the surgery, all I feel is depression, anxiety and a constant need to cry. Without the estrogen, I feel like I can't be in touch with the real emotions that I should be going through: excitement, fear, joy. I can't really connect with those emotions right now...</p><p>But that's a minor detail, in the grand scheme of things. I am one step away from the most important step in my medical transition. The one step that triggered my egg cracking. The one step that made me think that I could look the way I had always wanted, even if I didn't always realise I wanted it. Just 48 hours more, and this part of my trans journey will be done.</p><p><a href="https://c.im/tags/Trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Trans</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
🌈✨ vanta rainbow black ✨🌈<p><a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
Cait the Proud Trans Woman<p>I've decided that instead of "deadname", which I like but has sort of negative connotations that I feel like I want to avoid, I'm going to refer to that name I once bore as an "appellation d'origine contrôlée", or "appcon" as I'll use it. </p><p>It means "a name for a thing that comes from a specific region", like champagne, or burgundy, or bologna. </p><p>Mine was a name that, thankfully, no one has ever claimed as a feminine name, nor has there ever been a movement to use it for girls. So if I define the region as "masculinity", it works perfectly. It wasn't right for me - I'm not from there. I don't have the right to call myself by that appellation controllée.</p><p>Somehow, it lets me hate my appcon a little less. It's a good enough name, I guess, for those who come from Masculinia. But I'm not from there. </p><p><a href="https://wargamers.social/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
ebel aurora | map data witch<p>“every gender transition is a statement in favor of human possibility and freedom and i’m tired of hearing it talked about like it’s some kind of disease ”</p><p>src: <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/emializh.bsky.social/post/3lo4xsidzz22i" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">bsky.app/profile/emializh.bsky</span><span class="invisible">.social/post/3lo4xsidzz22i</span></a> <br><a href="https://moytura.org/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://moytura.org/tags/transjoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transjoy</span></a></p>
KawaiiPunk<p>Getting gendered correctly by people and not because you pass (whatever that means), because they wanna show respect for another human</p><p><a href="https://sunbeam.city/tags/transjoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transjoy</span></a></p>
J. R. DePriest :verified_trans: :donor: :Moopsy: :EA DATA. SF:<p>I officially "no longer have the balls" for... well, for <em>anything</em>.<br>With insurance, my out of pocket is still just over $1,000 and they don't take Care Credit. They will let me set up a payment plan but I made an initial payment using my HSA (which stands for "Health Savings <em>Arrangement</em>" not "Account"). American healthcare is great, but American insurance is the very definition of "worldly".</p><p><a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/TransJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TransJoy</span></a></p>
Kelida<p>Now and then, every once in a very long while, one day in a million days, a <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/curlyGirl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>curlyGirl</span></a>’s hair actually cooperates.</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/selfie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>selfie</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/transJoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transJoy</span></a></p>
KawaiiPunk<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kw7g4hRw7XI" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?v=Kw7g4hRw7X</span><span class="invisible">I</span></a></p><p>Hercules and Love Affair - You Belong </p><p><a href="https://sunbeam.city/tags/transjoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transjoy</span></a></p>
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